Stopping the blame game

HULLO EVERYONE welcome to my blog. Today i would like to write about Blame - one of the most unhelpful exercises humans use to protect themselves.

Sometimes we can thing, and I did, I dont do that, I dont blame others for anything. Well.... actually I did!! Our minds are so good at hiding the truth from us. We do not blame others 90% of the time, and there hidden in the back, behind the shoes in the wardrobe, is 10% still remaining that hides from our conscious mind until suddenly one day, if we're being really honest with ourselves that day...BOOM! there it is! in all its glory shining its unpleasantness out to the person we blame for our feelings.

You make me feel! .... is a favourite of most of us. And even when we KNOW that no one can MAKE us feel anything, we still blame them for feeling miserable, depressed, sad, upset etc.

So how to change that % we still blame others. It might be more or less depending on whether we have been aware of this not so helpful strategy that our egos use to protect us.

It doesnt matter what % you have, its just about changing our mindsets about it. So next time someone speaks unkindly to you, instead of blaming them for making you feel bad, lets do another really WILD crazy OUT THERE thing and FORGIVE THEM!!

Shock,horror, no not that! Yes, that! Actually Jesus learnt to forgive everyone way before he was on the cross. Why did he do that? What was the point?

The point is, ... well there are a few actually:

One point is that blaming others doesnt make us feel better, it actually makes us feel worse.
It keeps the misery going, because what we focus on is what grows stronger in our lives.

For example if I notice the good things about that person then I will feel happy and they will pick up on my Vibe and feel happy then they will be kind to me and then I will be kind to them and then we will both be happy!

I will talk more about this in my next blog.

Love you all. Thank you for reading.

Julia

WELCOME EVERYONE! to my Blog - with name change. I hope you like it. I do.

What does it mean to live a soulful life?

This will be the subject of my blog.

There are many understandings of the words soul and soulful.

My meaning here is How to live a life connected to the Soul - my soul, other souls, high level souls like the Buddha, Jesus, Archangels, Ascended Masters, the Tao, even the Divine. And through having this connection living a very different life than most people experience on Mother Earth.

We will have fun exploring this, with practical techniques, meditations, and more.

I look forward to connecting with you. Please leave your comments.

LIVING A SOULFUL LIFE

WOULD YOU LIKE TO EXPERIENCE MORE JOY in your life?

Join me for my last 10 days of my 30 day Divine Joy challenge. Day 20. 

I have learnt so much in the last 20 days as I have been guided by Heaven, read, done amazing spiritual practices, been in nature and received messages.

Here are a few points for you, (i will write more each day for the next 10 days to inspire you and me):

I went for a walk in the forest... and what do we have in forests?? BIG TREES!!!

So I always want to hug the biggest! and put my back against them. Well thats what I did this last week. And wow! What an amazing energy and light went through my whole body up to the sky!

I asked the beloved tree's soul for a message:

The tree said (and I paraphrase as I didnt have a notebook with me):

Dear one, I put my roots down deep into Mother Earth and then the energy and light comes up through my trunk to my branches high in the sky! This is what you need to do. Ground yourself deep into Mother Earth and you will be ready to serve others. 

This really touched my heart and soul.  Try it:  Imagine your feet growing roots deep into Mother Earth, breathe in her love and light, ask her Dear Mother Earth Please bless me, thank you. Breathe. Feel the light pouring up now through your body right up to the crown of your head. Then bring your awareness down to your lower abdomen and breathe.

The longer you do this, the more you will feel. Try going out into Nature and connecting with your feet, your soul , your heart. Practice everyday and you will start to feel JOY. 

My greatest love to you all.
More stories to come. Sorry this is not the forest i was in!

Julia

Soul Power for young mothers

Hullo again and welcome to my blog.

Recently I spent time with my daughter who lives interstate. I spent 5 days with her... getting up at 6 a.m. (that's a reasonable time for most young families!!) and working non stop all day helping with two small children - my grandchildren, aged 3yrs and 8 months!!

It was another interesting learning experience. I came away feeling such a desire to help young mothers and children through the very exhausting, often difficult early years of child rearing.

So Im thinking about how I can serve you today if you have young children.

If you have young children then you know what Im talking about. Older brother loves baby sister, but also doesnt!!!! Also expresses not such pleasant behaviour. Can you leave the children alone to go to the toilet?? No, not really!!

So much more I could say, but here's a simple aid to peace in the home.

Go to LovePeaceHarmonyMovement.org and download the beautiful CD of Love Peace and Harmony. Play the Cd in your home 24/7 - it can be on low setting or even silent.

Give it a go. It could help you to remain calm amidst the storm of daily life. It could help your little ones to be the same.

Sending my greatest love to you and blessings for a little easier ride, with this one simple tool. Let me know how you go with this.

Love you,
Julia
Soul Healer/Teacher
Divine Direct Soul Communicator
Soul Artist
Quan Yin Lineage Holder with Master Zhi Gang Sha.
Tao Calligraphy Healer.

Connecting with the Divine

Welcome to Soul Healing miracles for healing emotions!

Its been a while. Here's a little flow from Quan Yin, Buddha of Compassion.

Dear Beloved ones,
this is Quan Yin, Bodhisattva of Compassion.
It is my honour to serve you in this way.
I have lived for many many lifetimes on Mother Earth, and have studied and purified in order to serve all souls on Mother Earth and beyond.

My teaching for you today is:

Trust the Divine. The Divine is aware of every single person and soul on this planet. The Divine loves every single soul.

The Divine can be contacted through prayer and meditation. Many people think the Divine is inaccessible or is not real.

Our minds create blockages that prevent us from connecting with the soul world. If we let our minds rest and open our hearts, much can be revealed to us if we have the right intentions.

Let us do a little practice now to help connect with the Divine. Why do we want to do that? Firstly many of you struggle at this time with unbalanced emotions (that is what this blog is about) and we wonder how to handle them, or transform them.

One way is to connect with the Divine and chant.

Lets try it now, Please follow me:

We will say hullo to the Divine first:

Dear Divine,
We love you
We would like to connect with you for your love and support.
Please help us to balance our emotions.
Thank you so much.

Close your eyes. Sit up straight, or lie flat if you need to.

Put your mind in your lower abdomen to help you ground and centre yourself, give your greatest love to this mantra or sacred phrase to help tranform your emotions.

Chant silently (if you are lying down, or with others)
or outloud:

God gives his heart to me
God gives his love to me
My heart melds with his heart
My love melds with his love.

(A Divine Soul Song from the Divine, given to Master Zhi Gang Sha)



Repeat these phrases over and over.

Then sit quietly and listen for any message or feeling you might receive. If you dont receive anything, just notice how you feel after doing this.  You could experience nothing, or you could feel very happy, peaceful and more.

I offer this practice to you with all my love,

Your loving, Quan Yin. 



Thank you for reading this blog. and i send you my love also, Julia

In my previous post I didnt get an answer about how the people on the street felt when we sent our love.
Let's find out now from Quan Yin, Buddha of compassion:

Dear Beloved Ones,
This is Quan Yin,
I am happy to speak with you today about Love
What is Love - can we see it? can we feel it? Yes we can feel it.
Can we touch it? No
The beloved ones on the streets felt your love, just a little.
They would need you to practice sending them love much more to feel it more.
They are so sad, so alone, it is hard for them to believe anyone loves them.
Keep sending your love - Love is a Mystery.
Love is the answer
Give love and you will be blessed.
I love you.
I bless you.
Thank you for this opportunity to speak to you all.

Thank you beloved Quan Yin. We are so blessed to have you speak with us.

Welcome everyone to my blog.
Autumn is ending here in Australia and Winter is coming on.
The leaves are falling and have fallen.
Sometimes our life feels like Autumn.
Kind of scarey thinking about the cold of winter - the rain, the cold, the snow maybe.

We all have challenges in our lives, some are harder for us to cope with than others.
Some we make for ourselves with our minds.

The Buddha says:
With our minds we create the world.

So how are we going to create our world??

One way is to observe our thoughts so that negative thoughts as they arise can be recognised and let go. This is easier said than done, but if we keep practising, and asking ourselves questions like
Is this real, is this true? (see Byron Katie's work re this type of questioning)

Sometimes we dont want to question, we want to believe the negativity and want to feel miserable!! Yes, its true, i know because it happens to me.

Autumn can be sad or happy. Up to us, Winter can be sad or happy. Up to us.
How can we make Winter happy?
One way is by being grateful for all we have been given.

A warm bed. A heater, Warm blankets, sox, jumpers etc.

We can also send love to all who suffer in Winter.
Let's do that now:

Close your eyes, Breathe golden light into your heart. Feel the warmth flowing into your heart from the warmth of the golden light. Its filling every pore with light and warmth, Now send that warmth that golden light out to all the souls on the street who have to sleep on the concrete. Who have no warmth. Fill them with the golden light. The light is coming from the Divine, from the Tao, it is filling them with golden light. Send them your love now. Lets chant for them now.

Chant: Love love love love love love love love
I love you I love you I love you I love you.

continue to chant for 5 mins.
How do you feel? How do they feel?

Let's ask Quan Yin Buddha of Compassion how they feel now?

Here is a little song
Goddess of Love Goddess of Mercy
I pray to you send them love
Send them love to heal their hearts
Send them love to heal their souls
Send them love to heal their wounds
Send them love to heal their minds
Goddess of Love Goddess of Mercy
I pray to you fill their hearts.
Fill their hearts with love and peace
Fill their hearts with joy.
Let them feel the love from us
Thank you thank you.

Let's send all our love today to those who have so little while we have so much.
Many blessings coming your way much love from me to you.
Love Julia